I’m glad you have found something of worth in “Kindness” to use in your program. It sounds like you run a unique and creative school. I’ve heard from teachers (from junior high thru college) who have taught “Kindness” in their classrooms. I don’t know why, but it always surprises me. When I hear of youngsters reading the book, my one big regret about the journey is the whole hitchhiking thing. I don’t want to be the reason some kid hops into a car with a child molester (or worse). Even though everything in the book is true, the journey probably works better as a symbol–that is, if there is any meaning to be gleaned from the experience other than the obvious. But you are a teacher and already know this, of course.

I was glad to make that trip, though I would not do it again. In retrospect, sheer insanity. I’m pleased that people are willing to look past the darkness and cynicism to find something inspirational. When I left on that journey, I fully expected to have a negative experience. That it ended as the most rewarding experience of my life was truly a shock. My intent was never to write about kindness. That’s just what greeted me along the way, and I just wrote down what happened. If my book prompts people to commit acts of random kindness, great, but I feel squeamish about posing as an advocate for kindness (if this doesn’t sound too silly). So, while I support your efforts to use my book in any educational way you see fit, I must decline your invitation to directly participate in your programs.

Thanks for taking the time to write me.