“Is it possible that there may be an unknowable purpose to life itself?”
Rachel’s question, copied above, at the end of the chapter, “The Emperor’s New Clothes,” made me pause and reflect.
I realized that I appreciate it because I think it empowers us to create our own answers regarding the purpose of life and live accordingly. In essence, if the purpose of life is unknowable, we have the freedom to define our own purpose and change it as needed. It also fosters acceptance of others and their life choices, erasing any tendencies towards fundamentalism, which presumes there’s a “right” way to live.
During my college years, I worked one-on-one with a severely autistic young man, influenced by the approach of Barry & Suzi Kaufman. Their acceptance-based therapy program for their autistic son, Raun, challenged conventional behavior modification methods. Instead, they approached Raun with constant love and enthusiasm, without the compulsion to change him. This approach eventually led Raun to emerge from his autistic state and live a more conventional life. The Kaufmans’ story inspired my perspective on the world and my response to the notion of creating our own answers to life’s purpose.
Part of my “reality” is the belief in a benevolent universe that offers opportunities for personal growth and development. I find direction in even the smallest things, which some may perceive as eccentric, but it works for me, just as I accept others’ unique perspectives.
I encourage you to consider Rachel’s question and have fun with the answer. Did anything resonate with you? If so, use it as a starting point to create a direction for yourself, even if it means thinking outside the box.
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Kind Living 